Update Letter - November 2013

Written by Ben: 

It's quite amazing how quickly life has gone the past month and a half! We spent the last week and a half up in Indiana serving the church in Zionsville. During this time in Indiana we were studying Philippians 2 which gives us four different models of men who lived life with the focus on serving others. This has been very convicting to me with having a new baby at home! Often times I find myself after working all day or spending time preparing to teach that I get tired and want some "me time." The problem with this idea is that baby Wyatt, being 2 months old, doesn't see this need! The Lord has been changing my heart about what it means to serve. 

This morning I was reading Matthew 14 which is the story of Jesus feeding the 5,000. The interesting part of this story is what happens right before it. The story begins in verse 13 with Jesus just receiving the news that His friend John the Baptist had just been killed. It then says, that after hearing this news, Jesus departed to be by Himself. However, the multitudes around Him weren't concerned about His "me time" and they followed Him. It was here that verse 14 says that Jesus saw the multitudes and was moved with compassion for them. 

This has been a convicting model for me! Even in the midst of His own personal heartache and exhaustion, Jesus was still focused on others. I want this to be my outlook on life, so please pray for me as I seek to grow in this area!

The last month and a half have been very busy with travel to Chicago, Indiana, and Tennessee. During this time God has allowed me the opportunity to preach 5 straight Sunday's in 3 different churches! This has definitely been a learning experience for me as I have never prepared sermons on back to back weeks. It has been a joy for me to grow in this area. 

During our time back in Robbinsville, Colin's brother Bill and I are continuing our work to restore the old tobacco barn on the ETM property. This barn will allow us to store building supplies for upcoming projects on the property. Please pray for our continued safety as we continue working to restore this barn. 

God has been faithfully continuing to build a team that is able to support our ministry financially. Without that team behind us, our ministry here would not be possible! We do ask for your continued prayers as our current monthly support is below our monthly level of need. Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions about this. Please pray with us as we wait to see how God will continue to meet this need!

We love you all!!

The Thackers

My FAVORITE part of the Labor and Delivery Story...

I left out my favorite part of the labor and delivery story because I think it deserves its own space. So here it is.

First of all, my prayer was that whenever the Lord decided Wyatt should come, I wanted to glorify Him in the labor and delivery of this child. Secondly, part of the way that I prayerfully decided that would be, was through having Wyatt naturally. That was my plan at least, if all went well. I thought that was best for Wyatt and me. That's all - it wasn't to prove how macho this woman is or anything like that, at all. Plain and simple I wanted to glorify the Lord and I thought it might look like that. And it did for us.

SO! My favorite part of the story is that I so longed to glorify the Lord in this process. Did I know why having Wyatt naturally would do that? Partially, sure! I knew some of the side effects on the baby and mama when she is given pain medicine and birth inducing medicine, so I thought no one might ever know, but that's how the Lord would be glorified. However, the Lord SHOCKED me with a sweet opportunity!

People who aren't believers and are involved in the labor and delivery process will tell you that the true woman comes out in labor - and our birthing class instructor even warned the men in our class that they might not recognize their wives! Eek!

There were many times throughout labor that I wanted to quit. I wanted to a) not be in labor, but since that wasn't an option, b) I wanted DRUGS! And LOTS of them!! But each time I was ready to throw in the towel, I felt a calm and reassurance that only came from the Lord. I would asked to be checked and have progressed another centimeter. Father knew I needed that to keep going!

It didn't stop there. Even when I felt the pressure and the need to push, I wanted to be done! But really, there's no going back at that point, you can't just stop! Haha :)

All-in-all to say, that my favorite part was that I got to tell my delivery nurse and nurse-midwife about Jesus. And the reason? Because by God's grace I wanted to be obedient in glorifying Him in all things, even in labor in delivery and that was my prayer, and I received this opportunity to do that verbally!! The nurse and nurse-midwife could not some raving about how well I had done. That I hadn't complained. That I was happy, that I smiled, that the whole time I was just pleasant. Even going through labor!. I've never seen anyone in labor, but apparently they had never seen anything like that. But the SUPER FUN part about that is that it could have only, only, only been Jesus in me! And I got to share that with them!!! Anything good in me is Jesus. Period. Plain and simple!

Without Him, my true self is angry, bitter, selfish, hateful, messy, rude. All by God's grace and to His glory I have joy and peace and love in my heart because HE has made me new and gotten rid of all that junk - and that's what they saw! They saw this new woman that Jesus has made me! I am still a work in progress but I am thankful that when my heart, my true self was revealed, it revealed Him!  Ahhh still praising the Lord for this!

(In addition, when I went back for my 6 week check-up, my nurse midwife was not able to see me. But she was still going on to people at the office about how well I had done, how pleasant and happy I was. That if she had another baby, she would want to do it like I did. SO I GOT ANOTHER OPPORTUNITY TO TELL THE NURSE I DID SEE ABOUT JESUS!!!! That anything good Anne saw in me was only and could only be HIM! Praise the Lord for what He has done and is doing in my life!!!!)

The End :)

(My disclaimer: While naturally delivering Wyatt was my plan, I also realized there was many opportunities for things not to happen that way. And I was okay with that!! Sometimes we don't know the best plan God has for us. I was open to whatever! Also, just because this is how I felt I could glorify the Lord, does not mean every labor and delivery needs to follow this plan to glorify the Lord. It just doesn't.)

The Labor and Delivery Story

I started to put down on paper write a blog containing all of the details of the labor and delivery story - mostly for myself so I wouldn't forget, and for a few others who might find it helpful or encouraging or quenching to the itch to know what happened (I think after you go through this, you want to know every one else's story, in extreme detail). But it became really personal. I don't mind sharing with anyone who wants to know, I just would rather not have it on the blog for everyone and anyone to see at any moment. Because it is personal. And it is gruesome. And there's a lot of more than I needed to know moments, a lot. So I will spare the majority of you, and for anyone else, just leave a comment and we'll get in touch :)

All that to say, here's the basic version.

Ben took me to the doctor the morning before my due date for my 40 week appointment. They checked me there, I was 3-4cm (which I was PUMPED about!), and 80% effaced. The doctor scratched my membranes to spur on labor, and told me she would probably see me later that day. We needed to walk as much as my legs would allow me to. We continued to pray that the timing would be whatever would glorify the Lord for that day. I wanted this process to reflect Him and who I am / am not because of Him.
On the way home (we have an hour long commute - which Ben was terrified, ahem, nervous about) I started to feel some contractions. Nothing major. We went straight to the ETM office so I could wrap up the end-of-month work before hopefully going to the hospital! I tease Colin (the president) the reason the Lord waited until that day was so he didn't have to finish up all of my work, it was God's gift to him :) Then we hit the road ad walked around a path in town a few times. We headed home, I took a shower, contractions were lessening, so I may or may not have tried another method to induce labor including Ben, and laid down. 15 minutes later the contractions were on. At some point not long after, I was having contractions lasting a minute less than 5 minutes apart. Ben made the call that we were going to the hospital, now! My mom headed to the airport not long after :) So inside I was hoping and praying this was the real deal, otherwise my mom was just coming to hang with her pregnant daughter for a few days!
We got there around 6pm, checked in, and went through their procedure of checking to see if this was really labor. During that time my mom got on the plane without fully knowing if I would stay or not! Thankfully they admitted me, 5 cm dilated when I got there, 6 cm after an hour walking, 90% effaced. We walked those hospital halls a lot that night.
My mom got there around midnight, with a Big Mac for me. We hadn't eaten since lunch and I was so hungry. The nurses didn't know and I didn't ask, so I downed the Big Mac (sidenote: I never, ever eat those things normally! I inhaled it. I loved burgers during pregnancy). In that moment, it totally hit the spot. Mom walked and talked with me through the hospital. It was so good to be with her!
The contractions started slowing, the nurse talked to the nurse midwife, and the nurse midwife came in to talk over some options. The one we chose was for her to break my water. I have to go ahead and say that this was one of the weirdest things I have ever felt. Not just initially, but continually. Every time you move, every time you have a contraction, more comes out. And it's warm. So they put this diaper thing on you so you can walk more. But it's still weird. And sometimes you still leak.
Anyways, about an hour later, my contractions hadn't gotten much more intense, really at all. So the nurse midwife suggested Pitocin to kick-start things, and then they would take me off of it.
I think the nurse I had was somewhat new, she had another nurse come in that was talking her through the whole IV thing. By God's grace I was calm as a cucumber even though I knew this might take several attempts, I even told her it was okay! But she did just fine and thankfully it was one stick. Those suckers hurt!
Realizing it is almost 6am and the nurse midwife is no longer on call after 8am, she asks if it is okay for this other doctor to deliver for me. This doctor was the only one in the whole practice I was not a fan of, so I asked if there were any other options. She checked, and there weren't, so she decided she would hang around until 9am and deliver Wyatt if he came by then. That meant I was to say on the Pitocin.
Let's just say the Pitocin hit me like a truck and the contractions and the progression were ON. I can't really describe how labor feels, but it is the most intense pain I've ever gone through after the 7 cm point. I am so thankful to the Lord that He knew we couldn't handle labor to be constant and He made it come and go so that even just for a minute we could have a break from it. Looking back, you just go into this survival, primal mode. You zone out completely to just deal with the pain.
I have to be honest and say that I could not have done this whatsoever without Ben. He was amazing. He was with me at every point, holding me up (even though he had just had back surgery 2 weeks prior), rubbing the relief points on my back, reminding me to breathe, encouraging me.
At one point, I actually asked to be taken off of the Pitocin, regardless of who delivered Wyatt later that day. It was insane. We hit transitional labor quickly and guess what I saw again? The Big Mac. I threw up about 7 times, which I was pumped about because our birthing class instructor said that every time I threw up it replaced 10 contractions! (Ben almost through up with me, but he was a trooper holding the bucket.)  
At another point, I heard the woman across the hall screaming like she was dying. I have never heard something like that before. And it scared the crap out of me - here again I could not have done it without Ben - he told me to just focus on this moment, this contraction, not about the many that might still come or the delivery. Just this moment. And it worked! Ben was there, right beside me emotionally and physically the whole time. While my mom was the one getting the puke bucket or ice chips or whatever, it freed Ben to be with me. They were a great team, I was / am so thankful for them both.
During transitional labor I laid down for a bit and actually would fall asleep for the 1 minute in between contractions. That's how much they rock you. Kind of crazy to me still that I actually fell asleep for 1 minute.
Each time I wanted to give up, I had them check me. I think by God's grace I had progressed a centimeter each time, because each time I didn't think I could keep going that was enough encouragement. Eventually I felt like it was time to push - the first time it was not, but the second time I couldn't even help but bear down. Something I never knew was that when you bear down / push, the contractions don't hurt like they did. AMAZINNGGG! That was the best realization.
Anywho, then the nurse midwife came in, and maybe I'm bias because she helped me deliver a human being, but she is an angel in my mind. There is a depth of love and gratitude I cannot explain that I have for this woman I hardly know.
Anyways, Anne was amazing. She helped me know how to push, when to push; she would touch muscles I didn't even know I had and tell me to use each one specifically at different times (muscles I didn't know existed and I couldn't use again right now because I wouldn't know how. It is amazing how our brains can do that automatically - God is so awesome!). Anne and the nurse that held one of my legs (Ben held the other), were so encouraging and so helpful and helped me do more than I thought possible. They were definitely experts at this! I was so grateful.
They kept telling me he was coming, and I didn't believe them. A few times I had an out-of-body realization that I could not stop this process. There was nothing I could do. I was going to deliver a child. And today. This pressure I was feeling would be there for a while, and then a little boy would enter the world. I was definitely at the point of no return - it was crazy.
Eventually Ben saw Wyatt's head, so I knew I could believe it at that point. They told me to look and see the top of his head, uhh no thanks, I'll pass. They told me a little later I could touch his head and for some unknown reason I did it but it was SO strange! I did also see his head at one point and since I didn't know the top/back of the head comes first I was a little concerned he was going to have a tiny head although no one else seemed concerned about this :)
Ben said I went into warrior mode for pushing. That I was turning red and purple in the face. Ladies, it is work. Like muscularly hard. Haha maybe that was dumb to have surprised me?
After about an hour, at 8:29am, Wyatt came into the world. (By the way, to all the people with multiple children, I assumed pushing would be like you said it would be where they just flew right out! Little did I know that for your first it is not like that! I was shocked and scared when they said it usually took an HOUR!)
They put him on my stomach and all I could say was "oh! oh! oh!" repeatedly. My whole body was shaking from shock or muscle exhaustion or I don't know what. I could not believe it: he. was. here. Finally. After all this time! You feel an inexplicable high and joy and relief and love and things I can't even put words to.
After a while Ben cut the cord and then they asked if they could take him and do their newborn stuff. He never left the room, but Ben went with him across the room while they cleaned him up and did some measurements and testing.
They started getting me fixed up - oh my WORD the pushing on your stomach after to get your uterus to get all the clots out hurts! And I tore a tiny bit and got one stitch and that hurts too! You'd think after the trauma you would be numb down there but nope!
There was a moment when they put heated blankets on me, that was the best thing ever. Then they brought Wyatt over to me all wrapped up, Ben crawled into the bed with us, and we just laid there together as a family for a time. Apparently it was a while, but it didn't seem like it. It was precious. Words can't describe those moments.
My mom came in after that while, she was in love and so overjoyed. What a blessing to have her there!
Wyatt was here. This child we prayed about because we never knew would if he would come, this child we prayed for after we knew he was actually real, he was here. Alive and well, and in our arms. It was an amazing process to be a part of - it has only grown my faith and amazement and utter awe of the Lord, of our Creator. He is so worthy to be praised!

Update Letter - September 2013

Written by Ben: 

It's really quite amazing how much life can change in just a matter of weeks! I wrote our last letter laying in bed in constant pain, and Jes was 9 months pregnant. Since that time, I am now on my way to recovery and we are a family of three!!

After much prayer and counsel, we decided that surgery was the best option to restore my (Ben's) back to full strength. The surgery took place in early August and we were thankful to have had my mom here for a couple of days to help with the recovery. The full recovery period will take up to 4 months. Up to this point, recovery has been slow but I am feeling better and stronger each day. I am very thankful for the relief from the constant pain! Jes was full-term in her pregnancy when I was operated on, but she was in great health and was a phenomenal nurse to me during my slow recovery!

About two weeks post-surgery God blessed us with an amazing blessing by allowing us to be parents to Wyatt Benjamin Thacker! He was born on his due date, September 4th, at 8:30 am. He was a healthy 8 lbs 7 ounces and was 21 inches long. Watching Jes go through the process of labor and delivery was absolutely amazing! She was a great example of experiencing the peace of God through extremely difficult circumstances! All of the nurses who took care of her commented on her sweet spirit and it allowed her to point those ladies back to the Lord in the way she was handling herself. She never complained, and was a beautiful example to me in the way she made glorifying God her focus during that time.

During these two major events I have continued to learn more about what it means to work as a team. When working as a team to make disciples, the goal is always making your teammates as effective as they can be to minister to others. There will be times in all of our lives where we must rely on the strength of our team to get through the day. I was fully reliant on Jes to meet my physical needs during my time of bed rest, and I learned much about what it means to receive grace. During her recovery from the birth, I have enjoyed the opportunity to serve her and to work to once again restore her to a place of being most effective for the kingdom of God!

This past week we have had the great privilege of spending time with our colleague in ministry, Jim Caminata who is working to make disciples in Italy. Jim is a part of our ETM team and has spent 2 weeks here in North Carolina and in Indiana watching how we work as a team in ministry. Pray for Jim as he goes back and seeks to build a team to equip Italy.

We do ask especially for your prayers concerning our financial support. Working at Eternal Truth we receive funding from individuals and churches who financially support our ministry. We are not paid through ETM, we live based on whatever support comes in for us in a given month. Our current monthly support is not enough to sustain our needs as a family moving forward. Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions about this. Please pray with us as we wait to see how God will meet this need!

Little man makes his arrival!

Our little man made it into the world, healthy and strong! Wyatt Benjamin was born Wednesday, September 4, 2013 at 8:29am. He was 8 lbs, 7 oz, and 20 inches long! All praises to the Lord!

Catching Up!

Whew! It has been a while since the last post, but I feel a catching up of sorts is needed. Warning-this will be a long one, hopefully with more details to come in later posts. These aren't what has been learned, moreso just what has been happening!! Here we go:

-We sold our home within a week of putting it on the market - for the amount that we needed

-Ben sold our business to the first company he spoke with, which gave him opportunity after opportunity to share the Gospel and how God has changed his life and why in the world he would sell everything and move to North Carolina which logically makes zero sense. It also gave him opportunity to show grace upon grace, details which I cannot give, but in moments of being taken advantage of he was able to show love and stand firm but not manipulate or control the situation. All glory be to the Lord!

-I told my employer I was leaving the week we also told them I was pregnant, they were sad for the loss but were so kind in handling my leaving and happy for our lives personally. They also allowed me to stay on for a couple of months and work as I could after we moved.

-We moved to North Carolina and started as part of the Eternal Truth Ministries team at the very beginning of May 2013

-Since Ben's brother David and his family are working with Cornerstone in Indiana (through ETM), they had space available in their home for us to live in until further notice, which has been a HUGE blessing!

-God quickly provided an opportunity for us to meet people and bond with a team that would go from First Baptist in Robbinsville to work on a project in Indiana at Cornerstone. (pictured left)

-An added blessing to my heart, I have gotten to see my mom more since we found out we were moving and actually moved than I had before that! Literally once a month, if not multiple times! 

-We have also had several teaching opportunities back in Indiana (Ben teaches, I just get to go :) ), so we have been reconnected with that local body which has been so sweet, as well as our team mates David & Dana & kiddos, and Rance & Jenni!

-We have also been blessed to be a part of the college Sunday school class at First Baptist and Ben has been teaching through what God's plan for His Church is in the book of Ephesians

-God has blessed me with energy and feeling good throughout my pregnancy, although I tire easily, I have been able to run and do things pretty normally - sometimes it just takes a bit longer!

-At the end of July, Ben was confronted by some loved ones that he needed to get his back checked in to. When we got home he had a CAT scan and MRI, showing that he had a bulging disc that was hitting his spinal column and rubbing his sciatic nerve, causing pain all the way down to his left foot. He had surgery in August and has recovered amazingly and is doing WELL! Another reason we were thankful for my health and ability to take care of him!! More on this later ;)

I'm not certain that this covers everything, but it is all I can think of at the moment! Probably enough, eh? God has been extremely faithful and His timing has been beyond amazing. He has taken care of us physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, financially - in seriously every single detail. How amazing that this is the God we have the honor of serving?!? That is all I can think of throughout these past 8 months!

Update Letter - August 2013

Written by Ben: 

One of my favorite things about my dogs is their silly expressions. One of my favorites is when he cocks his head to the side and has that look that says, "I Don't Understand!!"

Lately, God has been teaching me that the way He operates often leaves me with that very feeling. Have you ever stopped to think that in almost every story in the Bible God works in ways that to us don't seem "logical"? Take the story of Jericho. God's plan was for the men to march around the city blowing trumpets. Then the grand finale was to shout at the top of their lungs and the walls would fall down! Or the battle of Midian where God kept making the army smaller and smaller, until there were only 300 men left to fight 135,000 Midianites! God orchestrates His plans so there is no doubt where the credit belongs.

Being a follower of God often means trusting and obeying when our logic doesn't seem to understand what God is doing. Being a disciple means becoming more and more comfortable with trusting God even when you don't fully understand His plan. What is God doing in your life right now that He is asking you to trust Him for, even though His plan may seem a bit hard to understand? We would love to pray with you through this!

This has been our experience lately. My role here on the ETM team is Properties Administrator. However, over the last 2 weeks I have been almost entirely on bed rest due to a herniated disc in my lower back. From my logical perspective, I don't understand why God operates the way He does, yet I do know I can trust that there is a purpose and a reason! Please pray with us as we try to seek an alternative to surgery over the next week or so. While this didn't seem to fit into our idea of our ministry schedule (or our life schedule with Wyatt on the way!), we know God has a reason for changing our focus for the time being!

Update Letter - July 2013

Written by Ben: 

For in it (the Gospel) the righteousness of God is revealed from faith to faith; as it is written, “The just shall live by faith.” Romans 1:17

Apart from faith Christianity is simply a religion.

God has given Jes and me the opportunity to have our faith tested over the past couple of weeks. While my first response was to struggle with this test and to begin to doubt, God opened my eyes to recognize this doubt was an attack from our enemy. What God has taught me through this is that living life fully dependent on Him is really the only way to experience the full abundant life He desires me to have. As long as I have a backup plan I am still able to be self-reliant, but when there is no “plan B” and my reliance is only on my Father, that is living life as a child of the King! Sadly, many believers never experience that depth of reliance on God and instead cling to themselves to manage the difficulties of life. Without releasing control we miss the blessings of experiencing the reality of God’s care, provision, and personal love in our lives.

Is it possible to go through the motions of Christianity without really living by faith? When we are living the principles and ideals of Scripture without experiencing the relational aspect of faith we are missing the whole point of what it means to follow Christ. Faith is essential because that is what builds our relationship with the Father. I can keep the rules without relying on God. This is why trials are such a gift! Each time God allows us to experience the end of ourselves it is an opportunity for us to cry out to Him in faith as our only means of getting through! Rules do not help us in those moments of crisis. God is much more concerned with your heart of dependence on Him than He is on your fulfillment of Christian duty. Let go of your “Plan B” and wait to see how God will show up!

What in your life is God asking you to trust Him alone with right now? We would love to hear so we can partner with you in prayer!  

“For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision avails anything, but faith working through love.” Galatians 5:6

With MUCH love and joy!
Ben and Jes Thacker

Update Letter - June 2013

Written by Ben: 

Over the course of the last four months God has taught us a lot about what it means to be a part of a spiritual team. A couple of weeks ago I (Ben) had the opportunity to speak with our home church in Zionsville about Ephesians 4:7-16. In this passage Paul is describing the church as a body made up of individual members. Every member is equally important no matter how small their role may seem. Even though all members are very unique and gifted differently, all the members working together create the harmony and oneness that makes the Church the body of Christ. We are very blessed to be working with a fabulous team of people here at Eternal Truth Ministries! What is even more exciting is that our team goes beyond those employed by ETM to a wider group of disciples of Jesus who are willing to follow our Lord at all costs! It has been through experiencing this unity of the body that God has expanded my understanding of His Church. I know there are times in life where we all feel like we are alone on this journey, but I want you to know that we want to be on your team! If there is any way we can support you or to encourage you with where you are please let us know! It is our GREAT privilege to be able to bring you before our Father in prayer.

June has begun with a bang here in the mountains! Every year in early June the ETM board gathers in Robbinsville for a time of sharing about this past year and to plan for the upcoming year of ministry. This presented a fun opportunity for us as we were able to share with this team about how God has been challenging churches through the ministry of ETM.

Last weekend we had the opportunity to begin leading the college aged class at First Baptist Church in Robbinsville. This summer we will be studying the book of Ephesians with these students and we are praying that God will expand their understanding of what the Church is all about. Please pray for this opportunity as we seek to build open relationships with these students who are at critical points in their lives!

Thank you for being part of our ministry team! It is a blessing to know we have a team of people who are lifting up our ministry to the Father in prayer!

With MUCH love and joy!
Ben and Jes Thacker

Update letter - May 2013

Written by Ben: 

For the past two months we have been studying through the book of Ephesians with our home church. This morning as I (Ben) was outside having my prayer time, I saw a picture that reminded me of that letter. There were two trees in the woods. One had part of its roots exposed and was no longer able to support itself so it had begun to fall when it was caught by another tree. This reminded me of Paul’s prayer for the Ephesians. In chapter 3 verse 17-19 he says, “That you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height – to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge.” These trees reminded me what discipleship is all about. As one believer has strong roots, being grounded in love for God, they are able to support other believers while their roots are strengthened. Our desire is to see all of God’s children be rooted so deeply in love that they are free to stand firm despite whatever circumstances life throws at them. But, until that maturity is there, it is our privilege as disciple-makers to help support them until they can stand alone! Our greatest privilege is to be able to pray for you, and support you in any way we can. Please let us know how we can pray for you!

We have officially arrived at our new home in Robbinsville! This week has been about settling in. As we have spent time with Colin this week, we have begun to learn what our roles will be more specifically at ETM. Colin took Ben throughout the property to explain the projects that need to be done, as he is the Administrator of Properties. Colin will be training Jess in the next few days on the responsibilities she will undertake as the Office Manager. The message has been clear throughout this training that while we have projects with ETM, people must always remain the focus and are the controlling factor on all of our schedules. We are looking forward to some new opportunities that have come up as we begin to build relationships in this community!
 
With MUCH love and joy!
Ben and Jess

Update letter - April 2013

Written by Ben: 

The mission of Eternal Truth Ministries is to renew the vigor of the local church by affirming the authority of God’s Word and by focusing of biblical principles. God has given us the opportunity to be involved heavily in that activity the past two months. Our home church, Cornerstone Baptist, is currently in a time of transition. During this time ETM has been actively involved in helping Cornerstone become a New Testament church. This has been a great training time for us being able to work with the team from ETM while still here in Indiana. Please continue to pray for Cornerstone and their leadership team as they seek to be led by the Lord.

Much has changed since we sent out our first letter informing you of our joining with ETM. As we asked you to pray for, our house sold after being on the market for 7 days! Also, Ben’s business sold to the first contact that he approached! It is amazing how God does things that the world says are impossible! God has really confirmed our decision to walk by faith and follow Him as He has taken care of these two seemingly major hurdles.

Ben is currently helping with the teaching at
Cor​nerstone on Sunday mornings and will teach for the final time on May 5th, and we plan to move to North Carolina the following day, May 6th.  


With MUCH love and joy!
Ben and Jes Thacker

life as we know it...

Life as we know it is about to change in a HUGE way. Who am I kidding, it's already started! God has asked us to walk by faith and put all of our eggs in His basket, so that if He doesn't show up, we're sunk! It's been an extremely exciting couple of months, and it isn't about to change :)

In the past months, we have seen God do some amazing things. We felt God's direction to sell Ben's business, God gave Ben an opportunity to be ordained, we were invited to join a full-time ministry team (in April), and after 2.5 years we found out we were pregnant! WOW has the Lord been showing up greatly in our lives!!!

Here is a copy of the letter we sent out to some of our loved ones (written by Ben):

Dear Friends and Family,

This year looks to be one of great change for the Thackers!

Since very early in our marriage we both had a great desire to be involved in vocational ministry, yet we never felt freedom from the Lord to pursue it. This past summer all of that began to change. As we began praying about how the Lord was leading us in that direction, we began to feel freedom to pursue a role in vocational ministry. This year, Ben pursued the Lord’s calling to be ordained. After much preparation with Pastors in Indiana and with our mentor Colin in North Carolina, Ben was ordained as a minister of the Gospel on December 2nd.

During one of our training sessions in North Carolina, we had the opportunity to meet with some of the team members of Eternal Truth Ministries. We enjoyed a sweet time of fellowship and were able to express to them our desire to partner with them in their efforts of making disciples. After the ordination in December, the board approved bringing us on as full time team members!

Since then we have begun to prepare for this large move that we have ahead of us. It is our goal to be able to move down to North Carolina in April. From all worldly perspectives, this seems impossible with all that has to fall into place. In order to move we have to sell Ben’s business, sell our home, and raise support to meet our needs to be full time missionaries. While this seems impossible in a few short months, we feel this is the time frame God is giving us. We are moving forward in faith knowing that we serve a God who is not concerned with normal time frames!

We are excited about this opportunity because God has richly grown us and blessed us through this ministry and impacted our lives tremendously. We have prayed and dreamed about joining this team since before we were married! First and foremost, our roles there will be to be disciple-makers; that is the heartbeat of ETM and is always the number one priority. As we transition, while we are building new relationships in North Carolina we will maintain our current discipleship relationships, as well as seek new disciple-making opportunities. The other aspects of our ministry will be property management and administrative tasks. In using the skills God has given us through previous work experience, we hope to alleviate some of the pressures of the current ETM team.

We know to make this happen, we need a strong prayer support team as we transition and for a fruitful ministry, If you would like to be a part of this team, here are some specific requests:
-Ben will be meeting Tuesday 1/22 with a potential buyer for his business
-For our home to sell quickly as we hope to list it in the next few weeks
-For a prayer support team
-For a financial support team
-For God’s perfect timing in when Jess needs to inform her employers of her leaving
-And for Baby Thacker who will make his or her appearance in early September 2013!!! J

If you have any questions or would like to talk about joining either of our support teams, we would sincerely love an opportunity to talk more about this!

a new year's surprise

New Year's day found me waking up at my parent's home. I didn't sleep in super late, being the lame adult I've turned in to, I didn't even stay awake for the ball to drop. I was exhausted! The weekend had been full of celebrating Christmas with my side of the family, running here and there, and getting some shopping in with my favorite shopping partner (my mama). Ben had gone home early due to some rumors of snow since he had to be ready to plow. I didn't stay long on New Year's before heading home myself. Before I left, my mom and I had a sweet time of prayer, for all the transitions we knew and didn't know were coming our way in the following year. Looking back, this makes my heart even more giddy not knowing what even that day would entail.

I met Ben at his aunt's house on my way home for some New Year's chili. He and some of his family had been there all day, so after we ate we headed for home. Randomly, I had remembered that my monthly "friend" had not paid her visit in a normal timely manor, which isn't all that unusual for me. But for some reason, it was on my mind to take a test that evening.

Unless you know what it's like to take those tests and come up empty-handed every single time, even though you're technically "late", month after month for literally years, you might not understand how completely unaware I was at the following moments to come.

I was getting ready for bed, and I decided to test. I had already reasoned in my mind that I was sure I wasn't pregnant, but even if I was, it was night and you're supposed to test in the morning. I tested anyways. For anyone that hasn't seen a pregnancy test work, you use it and then watch for two lines. The first line is the "you're pregnant!" line, the second is the line that you always have, pregnant or not, they call it the "test" line. I've only ever seen the second line. To my utter shock and amazement, this time was different, the first line started to appear well before the test line did. I was in shock. I couldn't move. What?! Ben started to walk into the bathroom and I quickly told him he could not come in. I took another test, one that was a little more expensive in case my dollar tree test was crummy. Same results. Fastest minutes of my life.

I wanted to wait and tell Ben in a cute way, but I was so much in shock I didn't know what else to do or how to buy time! I walked out with the two tests in hand. I gave them to him. He emotionally yelled, "What does this mean?!" And I whispered, "I'm pregnant." Before I could say anything else he whisked me up in his arms and started jumping up and down and spinning around and rejoicing. Tears of joy streamed down my face.

We found out on New Year's Day, 2013, that God has blessed us with a child, and we are parents! God had answered our prayers!! I'm still in disbelief sometimes. Our first doctor's appointment in January proved to me that there really was a baby in there. Strong heartbeat, arms and legs growing. It was breathtaking. Bless the LORD o my soul!!!!!!!!!!

"For this child I prayed, and the LORD has granted me my petition that I made to him."
I Samuel 1:27